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Nov 2 06: something I should say

I was thinking at first I wouldn’t say anything on this topic at all on the blog, but not doing so has turned it into the gorilla standing between me and being able to say much of anything else here. So.

One month ago today I moved out of my apartment, ending a ten-year relationship. It was my decision, and not one I made happily, or lightly, but one that I still think was the right one. Paul and I both want very much to keep our friendship, which is still important to both of us. Thus far that seems to be going okay, hard as it has sometimes been. I think we are both going to be okay. Our friends and families have been as supportive as we could want, and as understanding as I could hope for, under the circumstances; and for that I am grateful.

If you want to reach me, my e-mail is as ever, and you can call me at my cell.